I have been caught by surprise today. Shocked and befuddled. Then again those two words mean pretty much the same. lol.
Hopeful but also weary. Thrust is earned not just given. Loyalty is earned not just given. Once those are earned the flood gates of information will flow like a raging river.
But there is one thing that always gets me. Is that flow of information going to turn that person away cause they don’t like that information. Is this the reason many don’t open up to their partner. Because of rejection? humiliation? Embarrassment?
This person now knows your darkest secrets. Is that person going to use that Against you. Or is that person a vault no matter what happens down the road. Loyalty is knowing one’s darkest secret and never using it against them ever.